What do I start with?

 "Love starts with an attitude, not a feeling."  

So said Dr. Gary Chapman, author of The Five Love Languages.

Sometimes it's not the language, but the heart, the spirit, the attitude.

Help us remember.  We bring more than language, we speak a universal language of what we bring in the room and into relating.  

If I were sure I loved...

 C.S. Lewis in Mere Christianity, said - ask yourself,:

“If I were sure that I loved God, what would I do?” When you have found the answer, go and do it."

Ponder that thought, and then go and do.