Stop Vindicating, Start Loving

"O Lord, deliver me from the lust of always vindicating myself." St. Augustine

I think if we can learn this lesson, we will be better at loving.

Trying to explain, trying to defend, all seem pointless in the realm of love.

Restrain yourself from making yourself look better, by defending or explaining.

Instead, accept humility and find ways to make the other person look, or at least feel better.