Love is a Habit

 James K.A. Smith in his book, You are What You Love, says, "if love is a virtue, then love is a habit."  (page 19)  He gives a caveat following that, "it doesn't mean we necessarily love the right thing."  (page 20)  He explains, "We learn to love, then, not primarily by acquiring information about what we should love but rather through practices that form the habits of how we love."  (page 21) 

Note to self:  make good habits - learn to love by practicing it!