What do you think?

In reading an ebook, you can't cite page numbers, but you can give quotes:

"love is expressed with actions and not with reactions"

and

"love is not a feeling, it's a choice, a commitment."

Emerson Eggerichs
Love & Respect

I say:

Love is expressed with both your actions and your reactions.

And, love is a choice you make that comes with lots of feelings!
It's a commitment you give that gives you an array of emotions.
It's a ride, enjoy the ups and the downs.  Know there are both.